Dating Sites

When I first started looking at dating sites back in the day I was looking for what most men were looking for, sex. Unfortunately, sex was not to be found. Instead, I’d always come across these no-name sites that wanted you to pay real money just to send an email.

Those days are long gone. Even though nowadays my primary focus has grown up a little and I am no longer searching for that one thing, there are now sites devoted strictly to you finding a sex partner…locally. How convenient is that?

These days I am more about finding someone who vibes with me on a higher level beyond the physical. And, there are plenty of sites and apps for that around as well.

When it comes to dating sites, there are many free ones, and just as many you have to pay for. A lot of hybrid sites exist as well which can offer some free services and some paid or premium features.

I figured if somebody was paying good money then they might be just a little bit more serious than those that frequent the free sites.

Don’t get me wrong, some of the free sites are excellent, but many are basically just social networking sites, rather than pure dating sites. The real and popular “pay for” dating sites remain as sites geared towards you finding a match.

Still, different strokes, as they say. Your idea of a perfect match may vary wildly from my idea of one. However, you can find individual sites tailor-made to anyone’s tastes, desires, or even kink.

Here are some of the well-known dating sites that many people report having good results from. Some of these sites are free, and some you pay for, but all of the pay ones offer some sort of free trial or limited access so you can see if that site is the one for you. So if something here looks appealing, then by all means, give it a try.

*eHarmony.com*eHarmony seems to stand on top as the most popular at the moment. They make very big claims and I guess they must be doing well because they have a very large advertising budget now (I know you’ve seen the commercials). This is a paid site, but they do offer you a free personality profile (a $40 value) and you can view your matches. They say that their matching system is “SCIENTIFICALLY PROVEN”. They also say that “90 eHarmony members get married EVERY DAY”. With claims like that I would highly suggest you give it a try.

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*AdultFriendFinder.com*AdultFriendFinder, I think that the name of this one is pretty self explanatory. AdultFriendFinder is strictly for the grown and sexy. It is a paid subscription site but you can join for free and take advantage of some of it’s features. According to AdultFriendFinder:

Adult FriendFinder offers a variety of membership packages. Standard membership is free. As a Standard member, you can chat, send instant messages, and browse through our worldwide database of profiles. You also have access to our interactive Magazine, where you can post or answer advice questions or post poetry and articles. There’s plenty to do as a standard member! If you decide you want to speed up your search, consider one of our premium memberships. Premium memberships offer far more privileges and cost as little as 25 cents (or less!) per day.”

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Indulge yourself and find partners for hot Sexual Encounters and Adult Dating!

Anonymously email, chat & instant message with other sexually-liberated members!

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With all that being said I will include AdultFriendFinder under both free and pay. But either way, it’s well worth the trip.

AdultFriendFinder also offers several other sites in case you would like to narrow down your search just a little bit more.


Italian FriendFinder – Italian Personals

FriendFinder – Traditional Personals

Asia FriendFinder – Chinese Personals

Filipino FriendFinder – Filipino Personals

OutPersonals – Gay Sex Personals

Gay FriendFinder – Gay Dating Personals

ALT.com – Fetish & BDSM Personals

Korean FriendFinder – Korean Personals

Senior FriendFinder – 40+ Personals

German FriendFinder – German Personals

BigChurch – Christian/Catholic Personals

Indian FriendFinder – Indian Personals

French FriendFinder – French Personals

Jewish FriendFinder – Jewish Personals

Amigos.com – Spanish/Portuguese Personals

Adult FriendFinder – Sex Personals

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